Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Hospital and Home, Thanks

I was looking back over pictures from the last 20 days and am still amazed at how far we have come. I came across this group shot we took in Eden's hospital room on Saturday (3 days after the surgery). It was totally illegal to have more than three visitors in the CICU rooms, but after all the alcohol we snuck into the hospital what's a few more people in her room, right? Anyway, so many thoughts come to mind with this picture.


All of the people that came to visit us... those that flew in town on just hours of notice, those that brought food and flowers, and those that were there in spirit. I also look at our faces and see half relief and half shock. Eden was barely out of the woods at this point. She had stood on her legs for the first time and that was such an amazing sight.

Now, those same legs are learning to adjust to the heart of an energizer bunny. We have heard that she may be experiencing some muscle exhaustion, just as we do when we push our bodies to work harder than we are used to. Brian and I are also learning to adjust to parenting a child with more energy - one who doesn't love to go to bed as much as she used to and has the energy to protest her limits a bit more.


Luckily, we are not alone. My mom spent the first week with us, Brian's mom was here for the second, and now Brian's sister, Erin, is here. I truly believe that I would not be able to get out of bed in the morning if it wasn't for all the help that we have been getting. We also have to thank Brian's company for their amazing support, as well as, our friends and neighbors that continue to bring meals and provide playdates.











Eden is doing better every day and her heart continues to look great at her appts.; we could not ask for anything more. We have met several families through this process, and although the general consensus is that young children do very well with heart transplants, we are quite aware of what a fragile place we are in. Every good report is still a relief and every extra minute we have been given with Eden is appreciated beyond words.

4 comments:

Glenn said...

Yay for Eden! We're so happy that Eden's first weeks with her new heart have gone so well. Jamie kept me up to date on her time in the hospital. We hope to be able to visit with you soon - I'm just not sure if Cedar will be able to keep up with her!

Much love,

Glenn

Erin Murphy said...
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Erin Murphy said...

Kera and Brian,

I honestly don't know how you two have the strength and energy to go thru all that you do. I have been here for only four days and am already worn out! But, i do enjoy every moment I have with that little monkey! I am so proud of you both for being the amazing parents that you are. Eden is very lucky to have you.

Love,
Erin

KcKate said...

we were so near and yet so far from you - having just returned from Shadowcliff. You were in our hearts as we passed through Denver but knew you'd have your hands full without more "company." thanks for continuing to post the news so that we can know of Eden's progress.
love,
maril and jim